A Blue And White Wedding That Was ‘A True Bacchanalia’

Posted on February 11, 2025 by New Jersey Bride

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Marissa and Patrick got married on August 21, 2024 at the Ryland Inn.

Details of the Day

The wedding colors were centered around blue and white.

A Ryland Inn wedding. — Emily Wren Photography

Reception tables were dressed in pristine white linens, accented with gold cutlery and colored crystal glassware. Each setting was marked by a stylish menu, tucked into a navy and white striped napkin that added a pop of pattern to the clean table design.

Floral arrangements consisted of hydrangeas, roses and delicate greenery.

The reception was a true bacchanalia, where Marissa and Patrick passed out fake teeth and multi-colored wigs, capturing the playful spirit that seemed to infect every guest in attendance.

Detail They Couldn’t Live Without

During the ceremony, in a heartfelt tribute to Patrick’s father, a world-renowned butterfly collector who couldn’t attend, the couple released butterflies during the ceremony, honoring his spirit and passion.

The ceremony concluded with a whimsical bubble exit, creating a magical atmosphere as countless bubbles danced around the newlyweds while they walked down the aisle, hand in hand, amidst cheers from family and friends.

Favorite Moment

Patrick has a lively family tradition at every wedding—dancing to the iconic “New York, New York,” as guests enthusiastically throw colorful, soft items at the happy couple, before all the guests join in a human dog pile to end the night.

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